Dr. G. Lagios: "Should I feel guilty about having an affair?"

Psychotherapist and sexologist Dr. Giorgos Lagios answers a reader's question about the guilt he feels for having an affair with two women.

In his question, the reader, named Michalis, 42, states that he is in a relationship with two women, the younger of whom knows about the existence of the other. He states that he feels good, as one covers the needs that the other cannot, and wonders if he should feel guilty.

Dr. Lagios replies that guilt arises when there is a conflict with one's conscience. He points out that the older partner does not know the truth, and this suggests that Michalis fears the consequences. The expert describes infidelity as a "criminal offense" as it can cause post-traumatic stress, anxiety and depressive disorders in the affected person.

Dr. Lagios advises Michalis to be honest with himself and his partner, stressing that honesty is important for authenticity.

*First published in issue 1034 of OK! magazine*